Let’s Finish This.

Day 16 – What do you want to happen to your body when you die?

i would very much like to be cremated. and have my ashes sit on my kids’ living room table, not scattered anywhere. yup, i think that’s what should happen.

Day 17 – Have you experienced your ‘first true love’ yet? Do you believe you ever will?

i have experienced what i thought at the time to be love, but after a while i realized it really wasn’t. i do believe it exists, i’m just way too young to have found it yet. and yes, i believe, or at least hope i will at one point in time. i’m kinda hoping to find my ‘true love’ and get married when i’m about 30, 30 something, just so i can have enough time to work on a career first.

Day 18 – What is your take on people who self harm (cutting, burning, scratching etc etc.)

it’s not ok. i cut at one point too, but luckily my friend told the counselor, which i was really pissed about at first, but thank buddha she did that. anyway, i don’t think it’s their fault. this is a psychological issue, a mental disease. it becomes their fault, however, the moment help is offered and they completely refuse it and don’t ever attempt to get cured.

Day 19 – Do you think high schools should give out free contraceptive?

yes, or at least have a public health office right across the street from the high school (like ours does).

Day 20 – What do you think about plastic surgery?

unless you had an accident that left you with a huge scar, i am completely against it. i mean, if it really murders your self esteem and you’re unbearable to look at, go for it. but plastic surgery just for the sake of plastic surgery is wrong. don’t be a heidi montag.

Day 21 – What do you think about the death penalty?

if you kill, you should get killed. rules of the jungle. i completely agree.

Day 22 – Do you say your country’s national anthem/pledge of allegiance when it is said/listened to?

no, i do not. it’s not a matter of not respecting a country, because i definitely respect it. even some american kids don’t get up and say it. i don’t sing the romanian national anthem either. maybe i’m just not overly patriotic.

Day 23 – What do you think about thinspo?

not okay. disturbing. horrible. NOT OKAY.

 

About 5 Days Worth of Opinions.

Day 10 – What do you think about straightxedge?

it would help a lot if i actually knew what that was…

Day 11 – What do you think about prostitution? Should it be legal?

yes, why not? everyone has a certain talent. it’s not their fault their talent happens to be sex. might as well use it to make some money. of course, std rates would probably go sky-rocket high, but that’s the risk of living in a pleasurable manner, i guess.

Day 12 – What do you think about bisexuality?

i’m all for it, as long as i am not dating a bisexual person. i suppose there can be exceptions for this rule, but it would have to be someone that i really trust. the only reason i don’t want to be with a bisexual person is because i’m pretty jealous to begin with and well, while i can handle being jealous on only one sex, being jealous on both seems like a very stressful, unhealthy way to live. but other than that, i love bisexual people! and i love gay people!

Day 13 – Do you think there should be an age to get tattoos/piercings without the consent of a parent?

yes, i believe 16 would be the right age. i mean, we can get employed, we can drive, we have to start worrying about college and sat and stuff. since there’s so much pressure put upon us and we’re treated as adults, we might as well be treated as adults in all aspects of life.

Day 14 – Do you believe in aliens?

nah, aliens are just a myth, i think.

Day 15 – Do you believe in regrets? do you have any terrible ones?

yes, i believe in regrets. i personally don’t have any major ones so far, but then again i’m only 17. i’ve met lots of people that regret the path they chose in life, though. pretty powerful stuff.

 

Abortion.

Day 9 – Pro-life or prochoice?

pro-choice. seeing as i don’t believe in god, i don’t believe in the whole ‘playing god/not playing god’ thing. i don’t think abortion is playing god. i don’t think it’s a bad thing. of course, it’s not okay if you engage in risky behavior and have constant unprotected sex thinking ‘it’s okay, i can just have an abortion.’ if that is the case, i really do judge the person that decides to have one. but at the same time, think about people that don’t have possibilities. think about the people that really took preventive measures, but something went wrong. maybe they can’t afford to have a baby. maybe this kid’s life would be hell if he/she were to be born. wouldn’t it be better to stop that from happening before it’s too late? and better options, like adoption? uhhh, no. how do you know how that child is going to end up? no one can assure you that the adoptive parents are good people that’ll give your kid the life he deserves. for all you know, the adoptive parents could be rapists. serial killers. i’ve heard stories before. nothing is impossible in our world. ultimately, i think it’s the woman’s choice. not even the guy’s. combined, yes, but there are guys out there who assume it’s just their right to decide. uhm, no. you’re just a sperm donor, so stfu.

Alcohol and Drugs.

Day 8 – Do you think any drugs should be legalized? Do you think there should be an age for drinking?

i think the easier drugs, like marijuana and stuff, should be legalized. i’m by no means a pothead, but i do think that by legalizing the drug, people are actually less likely to smoke it. we always want what we can’t have. that’s human nature. and if you’re going to restrict something upon a human, they’re more likely to want to know what that something is all about. same with drinking. lower it to 18, goddamn it! we’re teens! we’re rebellious. of course we’re going to want it more if you try to keep it hidden from us. DUH! curiosity killed the mouse. or, whatever animal it decided to kill…

Marriage.

Day 7 – Do you want to get married and/or have kids?

yes, to both! i actually have it all planned out. well, technically i don’t want to have kids as in have them coming out of my thing, but i do want to adopt children. why overpopulate the planet when you can change someone that already exists’ life? and well, marriage-wise, i first want to have a career. make money. buy a house. then i’m considering both marriage and kids. i just don’t want to be that one girl that gets married sophomore year in college and ends up being a stay-home mom. i want to live my life first, before making any type of long term commitments to anybody. and most importantly, i never want to have to depend on anybody alone, let alone some guy.

<3

Day 6 – What are your views on love? Do you think it’s real? Do you think we only experience one love per lifetime? Does everyone have a soul mate?

my views on love…hmm, this one is a touchy one. i would say, yes, I believe in love. i haven’t had much to base my love theories on. my parents are divorced and i haven’t spoken to my real dad in roughly 3 years. and i can’t decide whether i dislike my stepdad or my real dad more. but alas, i do believe in love. maybe mom just wasn’t very lucky, and my ‘dads’ are just really sad, sad people that don’t believe in the concept of love. yes, i think it’s real. we’ve established that already. really rare, but real. i think you experience multiple loves per lifetime, but in different ways. not everyone brings the same thing to a relationship as anyone else. you need to experience with different types of love and see what works for you. in each relationship, you can be surprised in different ways as in your last. and yes, everyone should have  a soulmate. somewhere out there, there is bound to be a person that is made especially for you. the problem, of course, is finding that person. but that is a matter of destiny, which is an entirely different concept.

 

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Time to Party it Up!

 

Find a Different Room.

 

And Do It Ke$ha Style!

Dude, I’m on a Roll Here.

Day 5 – Do you think sex before marriage is okay?

first of all, i would like to establish something: I AM NOT A WHORE. okay, having said that, i am not a purity ring child either. no, you should not throw yourself at the first person you see walking down the street just to ‘get it over with’. but at the same time i think that if you’re in a relationship with someone that you truly trust, and you honestly think that you’re ready, then why not? waiting for marriage is kind of overrated. and well, some of us might want a career before we get married, ya know? maybe i’ll get married at 40! and to be quite honest, the idea of being the 40-year old virgin is slightly unappealing.

so sex before marriage= totally okay in my books.

Controversial.

Day 4 – What is your view on gay marriage?

hey, who am i to tell people who they can or can’t love? i simply adore gay people, and well, everyone who’s against gay marriage can look at it this way: gays exist everywhere, bisexuals exist everywhere, and straight people exist everywhere. taking away their marriage rights won’t stop them from being who they are, which i’m assuming is the ultimate goal of this atrocity. the only thing marriage actually offers is a contract, so if you think by opposing it you’re harming anyone, uhmmm, no not really. so, YES, i am definitely all for it!

Roh-Mah-Neee-Uhhh.

Day 3 – Are you proud to be from whatever country you are from?

surprisingly, yes! but at the same time, i am proud of where i am currently. i always brag to people here about romania, and i always brag to people there about the us. and then whenever someone from here disses romania or vice versa, i get pretty darn angry. i really enjoy the fact that i’m 100% a nationality. usually when you ask someone what they are, they start going on and on about fractions of certain nationalities. it’s not like i’m a patriot or anything, cause quite frankly, i thank buddha every single day for living here as opposed to that miserable place. i guess since i think it’s really cool to be foreign and i get all excited when i meet foreign people, i think of myself as cool also? only slightly though. i especially like when i hear some romaninan song on the radio or someone from there makes it big in the us. IT’S AWESOME! sometimes, though, i wish i was american, just so i can say i had an american childhood. oh well.